Friday, January 30, 2015

Take Two: Ronit Roy’s Interview in Pune Mirror

As I finished cutting papaya using an old sheet from a Pune Mirror issue as cushion over the table top, I glanced over the sheet that was still unstained. I must have done a clean job. What caught my eye was the picture of two persons along with title of the piece “Take Two”. It was an interview of actor Ronit Roy as interviewed by one reader Angad Singh; perhaps a gesture from the newspaper. Angad Sardar ji smiled contagiously in red t-shirt while Ronit looked dashing handsome in his black suit. “So how different an interview this would be given that Angad was said to be a digital marketing BD guy and not a regular journalist?” I wondered and hence I decided to read the piece…

Angad begins with asking Ronit which of his movies out of Udaan and Two States he loved most. I think this question was asked to educate the uninitiated readers about the fact that Ronit was about a well-known face in Bollywood. Next question horrified me, “What drives you to choose a role?” I remembered this question being asked to each actor or actress as if it was so very important; from the interviews of actors I read while waiting at salons (hair dressers; or stylists?) for my turn at our college joint. “Let me see Ronit’s reply”, I thought with skepticism. “I am not the kind that can make sense of a script and its potential. So I simply go by what the people involved in the making tell me. Moreover, if I have placed my trust in the director or producer, I let them take a call”, said Ronit. And then he adds that at times he gets convinced about a movie in less than a minute (is it when he is unemployed?). Later in the same interview he tells how he turned down his role in Two States twice but in the end when Karan Johar called him and said, “Trust me and do it”, he accepted the movie. I wondered why one would say all this…

Why would an actor, or better put an employed actor who is doing movies which are famous, like to tell the whole world including the directors and producers who could be reading this piece of interview that he could be tricked into a role in a minute or two if the pitch tells about personal trust and falling to emotional blackmailing is one’s weakness? What positive impression does such a revelation leave in the minds of businessmen who are running the show business? Wise men have told us the benefit of remaining plain face and not to reveal our thinking or strategy during negotiations! And here, an actor is virtually sending an open invitation to the bad people to come and cheat him? Obviously not every producer is a cheat and they don’t always need to convince actors so hard to make them agree to a role (because they always discuss the money), but still there are times when bad people do bad things and it is better for actors like Ronit to play safe…

Now let us think how this question is relevant for the “readers” of a newspaper like Pune Mirror? How does Ronit Roy make a decision to join or reject a role? Is Santa Uncle or Sammy Aunty interested in his answer to this question? Are we dreaming that one day we shall bump into a Ronit Roy in a shopping mall and the first question we shall shoot him down with would be “See Ronit, I have a role to offer you, and you can trust me and go for it.”? Do the journalists who earn their paychecks asking such irrelevant questions and wasting the time of both the celebrity actors and their thousands of audiences ever use their mind to think why and for whose behalf they are asking a particular question? As a reader, I would be more interested in knowing about Ronit’s journey in the acting world, about his struggles and successes, or when he speaks about his family and kids – that would make my heart warm. But what do I get? Which of the two movies is your favorites and how do you decide to take up a role? Such questions are for anyone but for readers… And to think that such questions were asked by a reader is more depressing. Perhaps it was edited by some seasoned journalist who has stopped growing up and hence the result.

Still, some portions of the interview are able to warm up our hearts. Angad asks the same stale, ancient, abused question “would you be more comfortable doing television over cinema?” And Ronit replies for our pleasure, “I would be most comfortable taking a walk in the hills”. That’s it! Even the actor is sending signals that the interviewer is being too boring.

After a while in the same interview, Ronit’s reply lights up our sparks, “I do television because it gives me the power to say no to bad cinema.” Wonderful and classy.

© Rahul

[Reference: ‘Take Two’, Page 21, Pune Mirror, January 11, 2015]


[Disclaimer: Views expressed are personal and do not represent views of any organization author is associated with. You can also go through detailed disclaimer on the blog.]

Sunday, January 18, 2015

Random Thoughts - Life Not Beyond

Weird Birthday Wishes on Facebook


Facebook acts in weird ways. Sometimes I see - it is someone's birthday and his or her timeline is flooded with wonderful birthday messages... If one posted something on that day - it rains 'likes' & 'comments' on the blessed event. Next day the same person posts "thank you all for your wishes; you made my day" and stuff like that and guess what! Not a single like or comment! :) It looks so horrible and lonely! 

I think what it means is that people made that flash mob because of either facebook intimations or by virtue of facebook imitations. FB does not intimate them that you are thanking them for yesterday's wishes and hence the curfew. So in order to keep appearing blessed, we need not thank people for something which they did not do out of true heart :) (well, at least statistically)

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Who should see what on Facebook


Did you notice that facebook started this feature where you can share a post with all while making it invisible for someone or for some people chosen by you? Perhaps it was facebook's response to your demand of providing a 'dislike' button. E.g. if you are posting a non-veg dish's picture, you can 'exclude' your vegetarian friends so that they don't get offended. But the same feature can also be used by cheating husbands and wives to avoid each other; by kids to remain hidden from parents' or teachers' snoopy eyes, or by employees who can make fun of their bosses without letting them know. Perhaps this feature was also designed to appeal to our habit of "talking behind the back" of people. So now if you start noticing some positive changes in some people's posts, you have reasons to doubt or suspect if the person has really changed or is it that s/he is just 'excluding' you from the negative posts?

Disclaimer: I have never posted anything through this mode. But if you want to try: for each post click on Who should see this -> More options -> Custom -> Don't share this with -> mention name.

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Do Indians Speak Too Fast?


Someone said Indians speak too fast... 

I said they speak so fast because they think so fast. Can someone really speak at a different rate than the speed of thinking unless one spoke nonsense? And they have to think fast because if they don't; someone else will lock the door from inside in the washroom; someone will run away with their chair in the food court; someone will grab that last piece of roti; someone else will put a hankie on the last seat of a bus or train; someone else will stand in the aisle area of an aircraft as soon as the plane halted; or someone else would copy an interesting tweet or a whatsapp joke to get all the likes before they do! 

See, they have to be as fast for all such important things in life! :)

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Giving up Subsidized Gas Cylinders?


Govt has asked people like us to 'give up' subsidized gas cylinders and opt for non-subsidized ones at the market rate. It is expected to help govt spend more on the truly poor and needy. I fully agree to this gesture. And I have promised myself that I shall give up the subsidy when I shall complete repaying my home loan and will become debt free... And before that happens - govt should stop day-dreaming that I am a rich man and hence they can put burden of their noble expectations on people in debt like me.

Perhaps you won't find people celebrating their poverty so often, right? :)

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At the stroke of the midnight hour, when the world sleeps?


I have kept something within me which I want to tell everyone today :)

When India got freedom at the 00:00 hours of 15 August, 1947, Pt. Nehru said, "At the stroke of the midnight hour, when the world sleeps, India will awake to life and freedom." And this speech is considered one of the finest in world history. But I did not understand how Nehru ji could not get it that when it is 00:00 Hours in India, people from rest of the world may not necessarily be sleeping because their local Standard Times are different :) If there were live TVs in those days, some of his counterparts from other nations could be watching him speaking exactly that while sipping their evening tea or coffee!

I thought people would get angry with me - that now I have started finding faults in Nehru ji also :) But don't you find it funny?

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Karma or Destiny?



If two boys born under same circumstances in the same home with same genes can be so different; it proves that Karma counts more than Destiny... Let us not blame God for something which is in our own hands (and bellies).

[Pic: Anant and Akash Ambani]

© Rahul

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Sunday, January 4, 2015

A Life Lived in Love

In childhood we could afford several indulgences. So when I found an old wooden chakla (rolling board) which is used in kitchen to make chapatis, I dug a bit in our garden; fixed it in soil and filled it with water so that birds could come and drink from it. I also spread dry leaves around the water source to give it a 'natural' look. Now it became a routine - filling the pond daily with water so that birds could find water in it. If I could hear some birds singing on the nearby lemon and guava trees - I would peep through the window to see if the birds were drinking water or not. Sometimes squirrels also came nearby. I don't remember if anyone really drank water from there, but who could have stopped me from believing in my entrepreneurship? I remembered all this when I saw this picture today:




© Rahul

Friday, January 2, 2015

Our Security Guard

At times we can see some things happening in front of our eyes but can’t, or don’t react much. Story of an old security guard at our society is one such. When we arrived here some years back, we found him working as a security guard. After a while his wife started working as housemaid in the flats starting first from our flat. She was around our mother’s age and surprisingly she took up the role too by behaving somewhat like a mother-in-law to my wife :) Without being asked she would do help her and also gave corrective suggestions on things. We got annoyed at times but also liked her for that. Gradually we got to know that they had many sons and the last one got married sometime back; but they expected their old parents to bear substantial financial burden of running the household. In due course we could see the old man regularly doing overtime and night duties while his wife also worked hard.

A few months ago, the couple also took up the contract of weekly cleaning in the society campus. Every Sunday both husband & wife cleaned up all the stairs, flower plants and lawn, and they did their work seriously. As if even this additional work was not enough – he started cleaning motorbikes and cars in the mornings, which appeared harsh during the winter. Once while entering the society my heart sank at the scene – the security guard was not on duty but he must have finished his vehicle-cleaning work by that time. Hiding himself in the midst of cars in a dark corner, sitting on the ground wearing old rugged clothes, he was eating from the lunchbox he had carried from his home… It was morning so the food must be cold from the previous day. How life had changed for him! Till last year he appeared respectful wearing security guard’s uniform and now he appeared just like any poor servant!

I have been giving him some bucks every once in a while but I didn’t want to get involved in his troubles by being too personal. It is wishful to think his sons and daughters-in-law should have made their life easier and more dignified but I don’t know what challenges they face in their lives! But I can see through that he is in trouble…