On my recent train journey, a
middle-aged Muslim woman and her 6 to 7 years old little daughter boarded the
train from Prayagraj railway station. The woman seemed illiterate, spoke too
loudly, did not have manners, unnecessarily interrupted co-passengers with some
or the other help, and it felt sad to travel in the same compartment as hers.
But her little daughter left me totally in awe and seemed like a fairy of some
kind!
The first thing I remember hearing
from the little girl was when a teaseller passed in the morning, and she said
to her mother, “mummy chai kharido” (mother, buy some tea)! From the way she
sounded, it seemed as if she was asking for tea for herself. Her mother ignored
her at that time, but later in the evening, she did buy tea from a teaseller,
and she had ordered “two cups” of tea! It was shocking to see that she had
taught her little girl to take tea from such an early age! And this was not the
only thing out-of-age about the little girl.
The little girl used her mother’s
phone to make several calls during the travel. I found that she was in habit of
calling her mother “mummy” instead of “ammi” and father as “papa” instead of
“abbu”, the latter terms are typically used in Muslim families. But she gave
away her religion when she called someone over phone and called “Assalam
valekum”, which sounded so weird coming from a little girl.
She remained on her berth along with
her mother most of the time, and early morning next day when the train was
about to reach the destination, she came down with her too. Her father called
over phone and the little girl picked up the call and after saying “Assalam
valekum”, the father went silent; and the girl asked, “Aur?” I was shocked to
see such a little girl using this trick of saying “Aur?”, “Aur?” during phone
calls to extend the discussion and probe the other party to talk more. Her
father seemed to be totally non-talkative type because he was at loss of words
even though it was he who had made the phone call. The girl herself asked him,
“Aap majaar ke paas milenge na, jaisa pichhli baar mile the? Ham log majaar ke
paas wait karenge”. I wondered what majaar she was talking about (later after
reaching the railway station, I saw a small majaar (shrine) made on the Railway
land just besides the main entrance; she was talking about that as a landmark).
She told her father about the count of bags she and her mother were carrying.
Later she gave the phone to her mother. The father asked the mother “who all
are coming?” and she said, “no one else came” (meaning only she and the
daughter were coming) in a voice of disappointment. The father again went silent
and then said he was cutting the call, and it almost felt as if he did not like
his wife much.
Just before the train was to arrive
at the platform, the woman went to the loo after telling her daughter to remain
sitting at her berth. But she did not specifically tell her that she was going
to the loo, and hence after a minute the little girl became anxious and ran
towards the way her mother had gone. By that time, I was already standing near
the gate waiting for the train to arrive at platform, and I told the girl to
wait at her seat and not to move, but she totally ignored me and went to the
toilet door and banged it till her mother shouted from inside. Then the girl
came back to her seat. I was really impressed that the girl had not trusted her
mother and was fearing any untoward incident (like her mother leaving her
behind and vanishing), which was a crime stuff from the newspapers. I guess
such things happen in the worker-class families and such kids learn to trust
only their instincts and not any other from their childhood.
When her mother came back and both
were sitting on their berth, the girl looked at her luggage and after finding
several loose carry bags, she said to her mother, “Ye allar-ballar lekar ham
kaise utrenge?” (how shall we deboard the train carrying so much loose stuff?).
Her use of the term “allar-ballar” (or something like it, if I don’t remember
exactly), totally floored me! It was like cherry on the top, climax of a
thriller novel.
I think the only one who vanished
from the train was me, since I shall cherish the little girl and her
interesting talks for a long time to come. May she always have a good and happy
life; like a little fairy she is.
- Rahul Tiwary
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