Saturday, April 20, 2013

Want to Learn From Yemen on Anti-Rape Law?



In the age of Facebook Warriors and Facebook Celebrities all around, where success is measured by the number of likes one receives, “Truth” takes the back seat. This phenomenon was evident the moment I saw a number of my friends sharing a status update of some HR recruiter (who are famous for such publicity stunts in order to reach out to more people). Here goes the status with the image:



The response was phenomenal. The image and the “message” got 200+ “shares” and 40+ “likes”. This made me curious about “Yemen”. Is it really such a great nation when it comes to women’s rights, that India should emulate it?

I read the following in a quick web search and I was shocked at their records:
    

  1. Yemen is ranked last of 135 countries in the 2012 Global Gender Gap Report [1] [3]
  2. Human Rights Watch reported on discrimination and violence against women as well as on the abolition of the minimum marriage age of fifteen for women. The onset of puberty (interpreted by some to be as low as the age of nine) was set as a requirement for marriage instead. [2] [3]
  3. Yemeni parliament only has one female lawmaker. [4] [5]
  4. Women in Yemen cannot marry a non-Yemeni without approval form both her family and the state. [4] [5]
  5. Yemeni men have the right to divorce their wives at any time without justification, a woman on the other hand must go through a process of litigation in which they justify their reason for nullifying the marriage contract. [4][5]
  6. Before the court, a women is considered only half a person, that is it takes “the testimony of two women” to equal “the testimony of one man.” [4] [5]
  7. Yemen is a country where female genital mutilation (FGM) remains an issue, even after being banned by the Ministry of Public health. In addition, many women are forced to marry at a young age, made possible by state policies, which gives the family the control over whether or not a girl marries and when. [5]
  8. Yemen has one of the worst records of child marriage in the world, with UNICEF recording in 2005 that 48.4% of Yemeni women currently aged 20–24 had been married before they were 18 (and 14% before the age of 15). [6] [7]
  9. In 2005, Yemen ranked 136th of 167 nations in terms of press freedom. [7] [8]


References are here (I mainly took the points from Wikipedia articles mentioned below and yet have mentioned the original sources also):

[2] World Report 2001 on Yemen". Hrw.org. Retrieved 2013-02-22
[4] Basha, Amal. “Yemen.” In Women’s Rights in the Middle East and North Africa: Citizenship and Justice, edited by Sameena Nazir and Leigh Tomppert. Oxford: Freedom House, 2005.
[8] Reporters Without Borders: 2005 Annual Worldwide Press Freedom Index accessed 8-8-2006

I think it is clear the amount of our understanding of Islamic nations is pathetic. And this is why we appreciate their brutal methods of punishment, as if these were nice things worth emulating by us. We do not need to ape animals in order to become civilized. We have our own law in India and the problem lies in its enforcement and to make laws more effective and quick implementation! In no way I am undermining the need to have strict laws, but I am of the opinion that surety of punishment rather than brutality of the punishment methods can come better at reducing the crime rates! Crime against women is one of the worst forms of crimes and we should have more women-friendly police stations and faster proceedings to help reduce the crime rates.

But I think next time you meet some Facebook Celebrity sharing some brutal violent image as a “prescription” for ills in India, do think about doing a little research. It may be that in our generation of fast food and shallow opinions we may be appreciating the very demon we should be fighting against! Just like Yemen’s women’s rights!

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Sreemant Dagdusheth Halwai Ganpati temple does Drought Relief

Sreemant Dagdusheth Halwai Ganpati temple and trust in Pune is doing drought relief work. It has sent 60 tons (10 truckloads) of animal fodder to some villages worst affected by drought (it will feed 525 animals for 8 days) and also promised to keep sending fodder for animals in these villages till end of July. Apart from this, the temple trust has already undertaken desilting work at Jai Ganesh Dam in Purandar taluka which has capacity to store 21 Crore liters of water and it can meet needs of 2000 people from 20 villages in the vicinity. (Ref: DNA, Pune, 20-04-2013). 

This Ganpati Mandir is perhaps the most beautiful temple we have seen in Pune and now very happy to know about the social work.


Thursday, April 18, 2013

पगडंडियाँ - इंडिया टुडे में समीक्षा

साझा कविता संग्रह 'पगडंडियाँ' की समीक्षा 'इंडिया टुडे' के 24 अप्रैल 2013 के अंक में (पृष्ठ 61): 

 

Thursday, April 11, 2013

When Money Becomes the Problem



I think one of the ironies of our life is that money creates more problems than solutions for us. There are numerous examples from our personal experiences, if we care to look and understand. Husband and wife would work together to save money for a car. When they have enough money, they may fight on which car to buy! There was no money to buy a big house and a family lived with great bonding between members. When they got a big house, all kept them locked in their own rooms and started enjoying life with their own preferences. One of my friends once said, the love and mutual respect is best only in families which are poor. When money comes and in all rich families, there are only infightings and heartburns.

One can wonder if this phenomenon is because people have not gotten used to having lots of money. Obviously if one lived without money for many years, one would behave unbalanced when one gets too much money. But it is not as simple as this theory. Otherwise Ambani brothers fought against each other only when their businesses became too big. There are numerous cases of infighting in richest of the families, including in the royal families.

Certainly such infightings because of money are signs of lack of culture and grooming. Truly refined people won’t be fighting in such petty manners. But that is perhaps a flipside of money; it corrupts. I think money has corruption powers and we can’t really put hundred percent of blame on parties involved. Even though, the parties have to resolve the conflict by themselves. Just because money is involved, we can’t say that both parties have worked justifiably and the real culprit is money. Now I see merit in age old teachings in our Indian/Hindu culture where we were taught from childhood to look down on money. Money was looked as something which is bad. People with too much greed for money were looked down in society. People who did not work for money, were considered best of the lot. But not having money is no solution. We should reach a stage when we have money and yet we do not lose our balance in life.

Money is solution to a lot of problems. But it is ironical that after a point, it is the money which becomes the problem and there are not solutions in sight for such a problem.

- Rahul

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आत्मदीपो भवः




Wonderful lines by Atal Bihari Vajpayee

Sunday, April 7, 2013

We can't Buy a Smile When we Want

During yesterday's CSK Vs MI IPL 20-20 match, we could find Nita Ambani sitting sad and stone faced till the time MS Dhoni was on crease. Till the time Dhoni played, CSK had good chances and Ambani's MI was sure to lose it. She only rejoiced when Dhoni was caught out. That reminded me of the fact that with money, you can't buy everything. No matter what a billionaire she is, she could not buy her smile! On the other hand, Dhoni's wife sitting on the stands, was smiling and laughing!

Knowledge and skills matter in this world and money is not everything...

- Rahul