About IPS Vinay Tiwari, SP, Patna - Bihar's "Singham"

 

Vinay Tiwari (full name: Vinay Om Tiwari) is a young IPS Officer who is currently in news due to late actor Sushant Singh Rajput's death related probe. Vinay Tiwari is Patna (Central) Superintendent of Police (SP). He is part of the Bihar Police team that went to Mumbai for investigation and was forced-quarantined due to inter-state travel and it created a huge controversy. Despite a wide media coverage, little is known about Vinay Tiwari as a person and hence I searched to find more facts about him. Here are some of the details:

Vinay Tiwari is a native of Lalitpur city in Uttar Pradesh. He was born in an economically poor family. He was bright in studies and has an impressive academic career. Before joining civil services, he completed his graduation in Civil Engineering from IIT-BHU, Varanasi and also worked with JSPL in the final year of his engineering course. After doing engineering, he began preparation for the UPSC examinations despite getting job offers. Vinay Tiwari cleared the UPSC exams in his second attempt and still offers tips to the candidates preparing for civil services through his blog - "dreamstrugglebepositive".

In 2019, he was appointed the new Superintendent of Police, City, of Patna. Earlier, he was posted as Sadar SDPO in Gopalganj (Bihar) where he was popularly known as "Singham".

Vinay Tiwari also has a penchant in writing and he is a poet. He writes poems in Hindi. Recently he released his poem recitation on Coronavirus which you can check on Twitter here.  

Vinay Tiwari is also a mathematician and is writing a book titled "Mathematics and Principle of Life".

If you are on Twitter, you can follow him at: https://twitter.com/IPSVinayTiwari

We can see that there is more to Vinay Tiwari than Sushant’s probe in Mumbai. We also come to realize that he is a versatile person and is a self-made man and an achiever. We are proud of him and wish him all the best for future!

- Rahul Tiwary

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Nature: A Cow and A Leopard

This is an old real story from year 2002 which is going ‘viral’ again with a wrong location and time. Hence I thought to write about it. The original story can be read here, as reported by Times of India.

This happened at Antoli village in Vadodara district, Gujarat, around the year 2002. Every night, a leopard would enter the village from nearby maize fields. It would go to a specific location where a particular cow was tied. It would first watch the surrounding to make sure there was no threat. Then it would come near to the cow and both will play affectionately. The villagers would be able to witness this and sometimes the leopard would sooner if it noticed that the villagers were nearby. As part of their play, the leopard would put its one leg over the cow's head and makes a "purring" sound. Purring sound is made by many animal species. In cats, it is a sound of reassurance between mother cats and nursing kittens. Cats also make purr sound as a sign of contentment; for example, when being petted, becoming relaxed, or eating. In response to the leopard, the cow would also make a sound and lick the leopard affectionately. 

Here are some of their pictures taken together:

(Above) The Leopard arrives, watches the surrounding while the cow looks at it

(Above) The Leopard and the cow play together 

(Above) The cow would treat the leopard as its own calf 

Now the question would arise about why the cow and leopard developed such a friendship. The TOI article quotes Mr. HS Singh, Conservator of Forests, Vadodara, who said, “Sometimes animal behaviour can get modified. In this case, probably because the leopard which has passed the sub-adult stage, lives in a rural area and not strictly a wild environment.”

I searched for more articles and came across this one which described this event in great detail. It mentions that earlier, two leopards, one big and another its kid, were seen by the villagers who reported about them to the forest department. The forest department put a trap, captured the big leopard and released it in a nearby forest. This new leopard started coming to the village afterwards and it was perhaps the baby leopard who was now alone and missing its mother. Due to some strange reason, the young leopard developed a bond with that cow who started treating it like its own calf; and that explained their relationship. Although the article says that perhaps we shall never be able to know all details with 100% authenticity.

No matter what the actual reason was, I am sure that this special case of the cow and this leopard would warm your heart.

- Rahul Tiwary

Sushant Singh Rajput and the "First Love" Concept

After actor Sushant Singh Rajput's demise, there has been excessive media coverage about all aspects of his life. His family members including sisters, friends, relatives, co-stars and ex-girlfriends, everyone has spoken about him. From their statements, we are not only able to judge Sushant as a person, but we can also understand a lot about the people who are making those statements. Much have been covered about Sushant Singh's two ex-girlfriends, Ankita Lokhande and Rhea Chakraborty and we can make impressions about them too.

Based on the media reports, if we have to make mental images of Ankita and Rhea, I guess most of us would rate Ankita as a much better person than Rhea. Ankita speaks straight and from her statements, a genuine affection for Sushant is clearly visible. I would rate her “emotional quotient” not less than Sushant’s sisters. Rhea, on the other hand, looks a bit cosmetic, although I accept that I have not much read about her. But many of Sushant's friends have said that Ankita was a better match for Sushant and Sushant used to regret getting separated from her.

This brings us to a point: Is it true that our "first love" is often our "best match"?

I never had a girlfriend and I directly entered marriage. Therefore, I am not speaking anything with personal experience in this case. But with age, I can understand things much better now and hence I am making these comments. You can always use your own judgements and need not agree with my observations or opinion.

If we think of "first love", typically it happens at a young age when we just follow our heart without caring for the "practicalities" of this world. At that age, typically our parents take our decisions or else we seek opinion from our peer about what is right for us. And that is tricky. Even if we were right, it may happen that others would see things differently for us. For our parents, our career may be of a higher priority than we getting our "perfect match". For our friends, having a beautiful or a rich partner may have a higher priority over getting a good hearted but simple person as our partner. In that phase of life, it is simply impossible that our peers or our parents would have same vision for us which we would have for ourselves. This leads to a "repenting" situation which we also saw in the case of Sushant. And believe me, if I have understood one thing about relationship in my life, it is that relationship is the single most important thing which is going to make us happy in our life. We must rate it much higher than money, career, fame, or anything else in our life.

I think what should happen with the second girlfriend or next partners is that we would always compare them with our first girlfriend at the back of our mind. That would make the whole experience a bit emotionally "tampered"; and also it would feel a bit "artificial" since we know the "drill" now. Long story short, a second time will never be the same as the first time.

Now, if a person got his first match as a good match, it does not make sense to let her go. But if one is not satisfied and there are issues which are disturbing us, we should always have the courage to move on.

There is an old story about a lady who wanted to find a best match for herself and prayed to God. God gave her 7 choices; with a condition that she won't be able to revert her decision once she makes it. She saw the first person, liked him but thought to check the next. She liked the next person more; hence she decided to carry on. She got much better match but then she thought, "why to miss seeing all choices". By the time she went to check the seventh choice, it turned out to be a bad one! Therefore, as per the condition along with the boon, she missed it and remained single. This story will always remain as a universal guide when it comes to the way "greed" makes our judgments unstable.

I won't say that there is such a universal rule that our "first love" is always our best one; but I believe that in many cases it is so and I think many of us take our first match very "lightly" merely because it was our first match. Therefore, as a general advice I can only say that you should move on only if there is a serious need to move on. And if you are happy with your "first love", then you should never take her for granted and decide to move on just to explore more options.

Relationship with a good partner will be the most fulfilling experience you are going to get in your whole life. In the long run, money, career, fame or anything else will not matter as much as having a good partner. If you are blessed to have one, never think further.

- Rahul Tiwary