Wednesday, October 1, 2025
Tuesday, September 30, 2025
Travelogue: Lohagad Fort, Near Pune, Maharashtra
Way back, when I was living in
Mumbai, I used to go site seeing every weekend. I used to search on the
internet which places to visit, and go by local train and buses and visit the places
of historical importance. I still have many such memories from those visits in
my mind. Once, while I was doing MBA, a group of my classmates went to visit Lohagad
Fort. When I came to know about it and saw their pictures, I felt left-out,
since I would have loved to visit the fort. I remember from those pictures that
it was a long trek and my classmates had gone by local train and had all become
tired returning from the one-day trip. Afterwards, I always had the plan to
visit this fort at the back of my mind. After about seventeen years, finally I made
it today.
Lohagad fort, as its name indicates
is a very strong fort made of stones and it is in a very good condition. It is
about 5-6 kms from the Malavli railway station, but this whole area is hilly
and hence it takes lots of efforts to walk even a little distance. There is a
parking at the base of the fort and I went up to that point by my bike to make
it easy for me. But I found even the road leading up to the Lohagad fort parking
very narrow with really steep turns and it felt very dangerous. We need to go
on first gear most of the journey and need to honk at every turn to avoid any
accidents. To be safer, I went on a week-day instead of the weekend when the
rusk to such places is more, and seeing the dangerous terrain, I felt it was a
good decision. Even the trek leading up to the fort from the parking is steep
and strenuous since the steps have good height and can’t be compared with
normal steps we have in our buildings. The weather is wonderful in the rainy
season, but it makes the whole area wet and there is water constantly flowing
on the stone steps, making those dangerous. Luckily, govt has made stone steps
really rough and it was not slippery with the shoes I had and hence I never
faced any problem. There are chairs and sitting area at short distances, where
we can catch our breath while climbing. I would recommend the trekking for only
young people and the elderly and those who are not 100% fit should not try to
go.
Government has done good job in
getting mobile tower at this place and hence telephone and internet connectivity
is good. I saw many people making video calls to their family members from up
the fort, showing the area proudly.
At the base of the fort, there are
many monkeys by the side of the road and those are really harmless and hence no
one needs to be scared. But somehow, don’t know because of the season, I saw so
many baby monkeys all around and it felt the baby monkeys had outnumbered the
adult monkeys. I also curiously saw a dog climbing up the stairs all the way to
the top till the fort and after reaching the top, I saw that there were 3-4 more
dogs and all were resting besides the Nandi ji in front of Shiva Temple. Yes, there
is a temple of Mahadev (Shiv ji) in the fort, perhaps remade by the govt at the
original place of the ancient temple.
While trekking on my way up, I was
amazed seeing the names of the major doors of the fort:
- Ganesh Darwaja
- Narayan Darwaja
- Hanuman Darwaja
- Maha Darwaja
You can search to read about the
historical importance of this fort. It is mentioned that the fort was initially
built by a Rajput dynasty in 10th century who were descendants of Lav
(younger son of Bhagwan Shri Ram). Later, the fort was under control of many
kingdoms. Chhatrapati Shivaji Maharaj used to keep his treasure at this fort. And Nana Phadnavis lived in this fort for some time and made several structures in
the fort.
There is also a beautiful well in the
fort and I never imagined that there could be a well filled with pure water at
the top of a mountain like this. It felt dream-like.
In the rainy season, this whole area
is beaming with natural beauty and is a place to remember. I could feel pure calmness
and peace at the fort.
Seventeen years late at it, but this
is how I shall aways remember Lohagad fort at Lonavala.
- Rahul
Monday, September 29, 2025
Social media for non-influencers
I just read a blog post where author reflected
about role of social media in our lives. It would be difficult to ascertain
what all the time spent on social media would have turned out to be, and it
seems everyone overrates the role of social media in our life. So, what if we
came across 1 or 5 or 10 great guys on social media. By all probability, if we
were not there on social media but went out spending the same time in society,
we still would have met 10 other wonderful people. Although this could be true
for many of us but not for all of us, due to various reasons.
I started on social media many years
ago, as it evolved in India. I joined Orkut when it was the most popular social
media platform and I was very popular there. Afterwards, I was on Facebook for
many years and shared my writings, and poems as I had many likeminded people there.
And later, on Twitter. I also spent huge time on social media, as it was
designed to engage us and waste our time. Social media is designed to be
additive and everyone ends up spending more time there than planned. By now,
all its secrets are out, including how it causes dopamine cycle in our body.
But during the initial days, nothing was very clear. Now I spend very less time
on social media, but I often come across many people who are still spending a
lot of time there.
By the end of her article, the author
asked not to make social media part of our life, but just use it as a
connection tool. It is very good idea. The author also reflects how our life
would have been without social media. She thinks most of us won’t be missing
much. It makes sense.
Everyone has their own set of experiences
in life and social media experiences are also part of the same. In a few
decades from now, perhaps social media would be seen very differently. It is
possible that future generations would really wonder and laugh at the previous
generations for how seriously they took social media in their lives, how much of
personal information they shared, and how little they cared about privacy and
confidentiality. The way artificial intelligence and other tools are evolving, which
are sweeping the internet to make use of the data into useful information, the
internet has become a den of thieves and frauds. Our future generations are
very lucky that by their time, we already know about pros and cons of the
internet and the related etiquettes. The first generation of users are always
the guinea pigs for any new technology or business and bears the maximum brunt.
All said and done, I think it would
be fair to say that after social media came, first we reaped its benefits and
then paid the price. By now, we are aware of how dangerous it is, and why it is
possible to not be on social media and still lead a life.
- Rahul
Sunday, September 21, 2025
Movie Review: Emergency (2025)
I watched the film ‘Emergency’ (2025)
recently on TV. This is the famous film made by Kangana Ranaut based on the
life of late PM Indira Gandhi, and had faced legal issues before its release
due to some scenes including the assassination scene.
I found the movie surprisingly good.
As compared to most of the other biopics on political figures, I found this one
extremely well made. Although, the film tries to capture historical events
which are numerous and hence it becomes a challenge to tell the “story” and
keep it about the protagonist and not get lost in the historical events. Due to
these challenges, I could feel that the pace of the film was slightly faster
than could have been. But I know it was near impossible to depict the enigmatic
life of late Indira Gandhi ji in a single film and Kangana Ranaut has done it
so well!
I remember all the controversies and
press reports at the time this movie was being released. I have anyway almost
stopped going to the theatres for watching movies and hence I had totally
skipped this one at the time it was released. Now I realise what I had missed.
But better be late than never and I am happy that I caught it on TV now.
It is very rare to lead a life which
late Indira Gandhi had led. Those days, our country was poor and not strong. It
is really incredible how our great Prime Ministers of those decades led our
country so well. Despite “Emergency” being the theme of this film, which is
considered a blot on the face of our democracy, the film does capture many more
important events from the history of our country which I have read about and
hence was able to relate well. Though I was not aware that Indira Gandhi was
arrested by the Janata Party led Govt at the centre and later released due to
public pressure. There are many more aspects shown in the film which I have
read in newspapers and magazine articles, and the film has very honestly shown
those without malice or political colouring. For example, the depiction of
Sanjay Gandhi and his role prior to and during the Emergency of 1975. Vishak
Nair, the actor who played the role of Sanjay Gandhi has given a really
remarkable performance. So has Milind Soman in the role of Army Chief Sam
Manekshaw. I was expecting this movie to be all about Kangana Ranaut, as the
Press often depicts her, but found that the film will be memorable due to many
such actors and characters, and not only for her.
It is very rare to remain relevant
and enigmatic all through our life. It is also very rare for one’s death to
match the enigmatic life one has led. Mahatma Gandhi had a glorious death
matching his life, and perhaps the other person would be Indira Gandhi. I was a
very small kid when she was killed, and I still remember the morning. I was at
my hometown, standing in front of our house, when the news had broken about her
death. I remember that my grandfather, father and uncles were all talking about
it. Like most noble families those days, I guess my grandfather and his family
were her supporters too. I have some visuals of that morning still in my mind.
It is said that kids smaller than 5 do not remember much from their childhood.
I don’t know how rare it is, but I have vivid memories of that day. It is a
shame that this great film was marred into controversy for depicting her
assassination which is very sensibly covered.
This film has tried to depict the
complex personality and psychology of Indira Gandhi. I have read many articles
where journalists and authors have written that it was very difficult to
characterise her. She was not a simple person. And this film has attempted a
near impossible task of capturing some of the complexities of her mind and her
life. The movie makers get full credit for it.
I highly recommend this film for one
and all. And I wish our nation is slightly grateful for the great political
leaders we have had in the past.
- Rahul
Saturday, September 20, 2025
Swiped (2025) and the Evilness of Workplace Harassment
Watched ‘Swiped’ (2025), a film based
on the life of businesswoman Whitney Wolfe. I was not aware what the movie was
about before I started watching it and later discovered that an integral part
of the movie’s plot was about workplace sexual harassment. The movie genuinely
depicts the scenarios of workplace harassment which women face, as well as the
working environment in the tech startups. Although, no movie can do 100% proper
judgement to all the characters and all the events, so the movie can also be accused
of showing a one-sided story from the point of view of the lead character
Whitney. But being a biographical film, this comes hardly as a surprise.
When Whitney joins the startup, and
she was not a coder or a software engineer or big marketing name; she joins
from the scratch. The credit to spot talent in her goes to one of the founders,
Sean. And for a while, everything goes in a dream-like fashion. She is happy at
work, is appreciated by all, and the company gets its mojo and everything is
going great. But then, she starts dating another co-founder named Justin. The
movie does not even show a hint that there was anything objectionable in a
“workplace romance”. And thereby, it tries to hide a very pertinent truth about
the whole scenario about to unfold.
Workplace romance is riddled with
dangers, that is why most good companies have a policy against it. It is a
recipe of disaster. Whiteney and Justin are dating and in love, and it is not
kept a secret. After a while, the real face of Justin starts showing off, as he
starts taking credit for her work, starts sidelining her and pushing her away
from the media limelight. Perhaps, he was cunningly aware of what was going to
happen after the two broke up. The decision to break up was taken by Whiteney
after she had had enough of sidelining by Justin. Things go totally downside
after they broke up, with Justin showing totally abusive behaviour by harassing
and defaming Whitney. I wondered what Whitney was thinking when she went on
that road of workplace romance. Men are typically known to be sore losers when
it comes to handling rejections from women they like.
Later, the whole story shows how
Whiteney fought against the system which is against women as well as anyone who
takes a stand against the workplace harassment. It is an inspiring story of how
Whiteney goes on standing for what is right. But it is more of an inspiring
story because of the fact that Whiteney did not go down fighting and goes on to
achieve greater success in her career. And when a tricky situation comes again
in the next company she joined, she still stands tall. Hats off to Whitney
Wolfe and her inspiring courage.
At the same time, I can’t stop but
reflect on the root cause of all the harassment she was subjected to, which was
workplace romance to begin with. In one of my previous companies where I
witnessed absolutely toxic work culture, workplace romance was not only
tolerated but even ‘encouraged’. There was a policy banning it, but the
management just went around the policy by changing the official reporting
manager of one of the couples, to avoid detection. I knew of many colleagues,
who went on to marry other colleagues, only by seeing the encouragement of this
practice. I believe it was purely incompetence and a decision not to take a
stand, which made the senior management not respect the company policy of not
allowing workplace romance.
The truth is that workplace romance
and workplace harassment go hand in hand. Male employees, often in superior
positions in the company, if faced with rejection by attractive female
employees in junior positions, are inclined to harass them until they are
forced to resign or go emotionally broken. Whiteney Wolfe was able to come out
unscathed, and the movie shows the harassment situations very well. She went
through hell and came out safe, but unfortunately not all are strong enough
like her. And even if one woman is subjected to harassment at workplace, it is
a failure of the whole company’s policies and the senior management who are
supposed to uphold the values.
I feel like wishing that may there be
more Whitney Wolfes in the world, but I know this would be a wishful thinking.
Laws and polices are designed to protect the weakest in the community; and the
fact that the strongest ones come out unscathed of the hostile situations does
not mean slacking the rules. Multinational companies are seen to be often
lacking stricter enforcement of policies and rules because of lack of
accountability of the senior management who know their ‘time is ticking’ and
would be out of the door in a few years. So, why take stands and try to improve
the workplace environment for the employees, and why not spend most of the time
just to improve the company’s performance in the stock market, which is most
rewarding for them.
Workplace harassment should be taken
more seriously by all companies as well as by the lawmakers of every country.
And when it comes to harassment as an aftermath of workplace romance, the only
way to prevent it is not to go down the lane in the first place. I am of the
opinion that everyone should maintain a purely professional relationship at the
workplace, for one’s own safety and for the safety of others.
- Rahul
Friday, September 19, 2025
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Thursday, September 11, 2025
Travelogue: Ramachandra Shahi Museum, Muzaffarpur, Bihar
This museum was established by the antique
collections and efforts of late Ramchandra Shahi from Shahi-Minapur in Muzaffarpur,
by his son Dr. Vijay Kumar Shahi in the memory of his father. Ramchandra Shahi
was born in year 1912 in the Shahi-Minapur village of Muzaffarpur and he had
special interest in collecting antiques and historical objects and he had
established a museum there in the memory of his father late Brajbhushan Shahi.
The current museum building was constructed by the govt and municipal corporation
in 1987 and inaugurated by Bihar Chief Minister Bindeshwari Dubey on 23rd
of May, 1987.
Entry to this museum is free of cost
and you just have to make an entry in the visitors register. The museum is in a
big hall on the ground floor which is air conditioned. There are 3-4 people
available all the time to watch over the historical artefacts and will go with
you if you are visiting there. And they will instruct you not to take
photographs of any of the items. The pictures of artefacts shown above are
taken from public sources on the internet.
Wednesday, September 10, 2025
A Beautiful Bicycle Ride
Bicycles are special for children,
and I am sure we all have some very nice memories associated with bicycles from
our childhood. I used to have a small, beautiful, green tricycle when I was
very small, a cherry red Avon bicycle with two side supporting wheels later,
and I got a proper Hero Hansa bike when I went to the high school. But I shall
share my memories later. Recently I saw something which was more than curious.
In the morning, a man was riding his
bicycle with only one hand on the handle. With his other hand, he was holding a
small kid of one or two, perhaps his son or daughter. The kid was standing on
his lap and was enjoying the ride from there very confidently. I could notice
that the kid was dark skinned, had been given a bath, wore a new bright red
cloth, and his hair was oiled and fixed with a small “Rasna Choti”.
I wondered where the man was taking
his kid in this manner. After some time, I saw him returning after having taken
a U-turn, meaning it was just a casual stroll to entertain the kid before he
went to work. As the man rode the bicycle, occasionally he would turn towards
the kid and kissed him on his cheek. The whole scene was so heartwarming that
would melt even a stone.
I don’t know if the kid would
remember this when he would grow up, since he was very small, and how his relationship
with his father would be after growing up. Life is full of ups and downs and we
can’t say “happily ever after” for everyone. But I hope the kid would grow up
to be a little grateful and loving, the way he received love from his father.
- Rahul
Monday, September 1, 2025
The Samosa Seller
In my hometown, I had gone to a
neighbouring sweets shop after a long time. I found that while other sweets
were handed over to the customers inside the shop, for samosas we were
asked to take from the outside stall. When I went to the stall, I saw that
there was a small boy of about 10 years old packing and handing over samosas.
When I visited the shop the next time, it was the same arrangement. But this
time I noticed that the boy was not only packing and handing over samosas, but
also frying it in a big iron kadhai.
Since samosas are typically consumed
as evening snack, and by evening the weather is already tolerable, it was fine
that day. But when I went there for third time, it was day time and hence
sunny. Even during the daytime, the same boy was making samosas, frying it in
kadhai, packing and giving away to the customers who paid for the same inside
the shop. I was shocked to observe that there was no real roof above stall
since the stall was made outside the shop. The boy was standing in partial
shade and partial sunlight and making samosas whole day. This time, the boy was
appearing weak, perhaps he was not keeping well at that time. His hand was
shaking while picking up hot, fresh out-of-pan samosas.
I felt really bad this time seeing
this child-labour happening in front of me. When I went home, I told my mother
about all this. She gave an instant solution by asking never to buy anything
from that shop again in future. After doing a little ponding if that will
benefit or harm the kid, since such situations are complex in real life, I
concluded that it was a better idea not to buy from that shop. I did not want
to inform the government authorities because child labour cases are rampant all
across our hometown and if I complained about that shop, the boy may just get employment
somewhere else.
I can remember boys of similar age
working at kirana shops, welding shops, painting shops, etc. Even in the 21st century
and amidst so many claims of good governance, this child labour is happening
rampantly. And in most of the cases I can see only boys and not girls working
in such shops. When people talk about “male privilege” etc on social media,
they forget to check real life on the ground. It also reminds me that many
people like us take childhood for granted, believing it is always beautiful for
all of us, without being aware of many such kids who skip whole childhood for a
few rupees. Thanks to human greed which has no limits.
After that incident, I have been to the
sweets shop area and purposely avoided that shop once. I plan to continue doing
the same in future. It may not improve the overall situation in the city, but
at least I can feel a bit better that I am not part of it.
- Rahul
Monday, August 25, 2025
The Kid On a Traffic Signal
I have a few memories of the time
when I was a kid and used to go to school on a ‘school rickshaw’ in my small hometown.
It was a manually pulled rickshaw, with specially made wooden trailer, where four
or five kids used to sit facing each other in each of the two parallel rows. I
think I still have some glimpses of the rickshaw-wallah who used to service our
school-rickshaw. He was dark skinned, had nice hair, and was very talkative.
And how the roof of the rickshaw was made of “tin” like metal which used to make
sound whenever the rickshaw moved or came across a jerk! When railway ‘gumti’
(level crossing gate) came, a couple of boys used to get down and push the
rickshaw so that it could ride the small hill called the ‘railway gumti’. We
also enjoyed the other side of it, when the rickshaw rolled down at high speed due
to the slope.
Recently, after many-many years, I had
stopped at a traffic signal and noticed that there was a ‘school van’ standing
besides me. I think it was a yellow colored ‘Tata Magic’ vehicle which is popular
as a school van these days. There was a kid sitting near a window, perhaps a
boy, and he happened to observe the vehicles who were stopping at the red
traffic light and said to his friend in Hindi, “Jo log imaandaar hote hain, wo
rukte hain” (Those who are honest, follow the traffic rules and stop when the
signal is red). His statement instantly went deep inside my heart.
The kid had thought that stopping at
a traffic signal was a conscious choice of riders which could tell about the
person’s integrity. This was such a touching thought. I think after growing up,
today I believe that most of the people who do not stop at traffic signals do
so because of general carelessness and disregard to the traffic rules, irrespective
of their personal integrity. Although I stop at traffic signals most of the
times, but the boy’s statement made me reflect on several occasions when I did
not. I did feel a little embarrassed. I was not aware that if I did not stop at
a traffic signal, a kid could be watching and judging me, thinking that I was
not an honest person.
The way the innocent kid pronounced the
long word “imaandaar” in Hindi still wanders in mind when I think about the
incident. May the magical thing called childhood be always enjoyed by all kids
everywhere, in all times and places.
- Rahul
Sunday, August 24, 2025
Cow, in the Middle of the Road
While going somewhere in my hometown,
I came across an interesting scene which made me wonder. In the middle of the
road, unfazed by the passing traffic, a cow had started feeding a calf. The cow
was totally white while the calf was totally black; but it was possible that it
was her own child. I was in awe with the cow’s courage, or her lack of bother
for ‘external validation’ (if such a thing exists in animal world too), that it
decided that the calf needed to be fed then and there because it was hungry.
At the same time, I felt disgusted at
the owners of the cows who force them to wander on the streets and eat whatever
they can scavenge, just to save some money. This happens only in the towns and
cities and not in the villages where there is plenty of free natural fodder
available.
There is a very popular idol of a cow
feeding her calf which is considered sacred in Hinduism. Cows are associated
with many gods in Hinduism, along with Shri Krishna who acted as a cowherd in
childhood. But I never imagined I would come across the sacred cow feeding her
calf in such a modern context: in the middle of the road.
May the cow and her calf enjoy a
happy long life, always.
- Rahul








