Psychology: Being Sigma

 

Sometime back I came across an article which spoke about one of the personality types of men. Once I started reading it, it felt so close that I was hooked. Everything being mentioned there, resonated with me. There was not a single trait described which did not match. I was shocked. Then, near the bottom of the article, the writer wrote about two zodiac signs which come closest to the personality type. And guess what? I had one of those two! I think this is why psychology is a field of study and this is where specialized knowledge can help in some situations.

Although, I don’t know how to make use of the knowledge or realization from this article. We are what we are. Merely knowing that we are of certain ‘type’ or if we can be ‘labeled’ in some manner, won’t matter much. Although this was very interesting indeed. 

On second thought, does it mean that 'zodiac' signs really have some credibility? 

Here are some portions from the article:

• Most popularly referred to as the "lone wolf", sigma males are typically considered to be the more silent and mysterious version of your typical alpha male.
• They are the kind of guys that prefer being in their own company rather than in a group. Moreover, they only do things on their own terms, and they refuse to conform to authority or the world's demands.
• Among the other five personalities, the sigma male is considered the personality type with higher chances of challenging the dominance of an alpha male and actually winning. However, if not for the most righteous motivations, they'd usually just prefer to mind their own business away from the limelight.
• The legendary retired hitman John Wick played by our favorite actor Keannu Reeves is the best definition of sigma male personality.
• Sigma males are mavericks. A sigma male would rarely conform to the demands of the world. They prefer to independently walk their own path. Following structures and traditional concepts don't interest them, and they'd always create a system that perfectly fits their personality.
• Their creativity and confidence allow them to be individuals who are driven to accomplish their goals despite any adversities. Guys with sigma male personalities are not afraid to take up space and build something for themselves instead of working for people.
• Sigma males are self-sufficient. If there's a list of things sigma males can live without, it's undoubtedly other people's company and validation. Sigma males are known for their emotional independence and self-sufficiency, hence the reputation of being a lone wolf. Simply put, sigma males don't require a social circle to be themselves.
• They're not one to brag about their achievements online. They do not yearn for other people's recognition of their hard work or the need to depend on other people for their emotional wellbeing. As long as sigma males have their basic necessities covered, they wouldn't really need much in life.
• Sigma males are practical. Sigma males know what they want in life, which is why it is easier to prioritize themselves first over other people. Do note that this isn't being selfish, but more so, just being practical. As an example, a sigma male will never dress to impress at the cost of his own comfort.
• Generally speaking, sigma males' practicality pushes them to base their decisions on their personal preferences, not on other people's opinions.
• Sigma males prefer blending in than being the center of attention. Dreading being in the spotlight is part of a sigma male's introverted nature. They'd rather just work in the background than have the general public know everything they do.
• Sigma males prefer to live their lives in silence and save up their energy for something more productive and essential, rather than spending their energy on meaningless conversations and activities.
• Sigma males are deep and critical thinkers. Sigma males always make sure to take their time processing all information before arriving at a calculated decision. This can be attributed to their mostly being in their own company.
• Sigma males recognize that they're bound to commit mistakes, but practicing introspection and contemplation before taking any action would lessen its chances. They are also prone to self-reflect in order to be more aware of their personal strengths and weaknesses.
• Sigma males are socially flexible. Despite being introverts, sigma males can still blend in just well in a crowd. Sigma males happen to have some of the traits of an alpha male, and they can be very much like one if they choose to be.
• This trait makes them good candidates for leadership and managerial positions. While they can be quiet and mysterious, they can also be competent leaders, silently working in the background minus the ego of an Alpha male. 
• Sigma males are effortlessly charismatic. This may be a contradiction to their lone wolf reputation, but sigma males are naturally charismatic and appealing to the opposite sex. Something about their quiet and mysterious side makes it easy for people to get attracted to them.
• Sigma males are considered the rarest of all six male personalities. Perhaps, the most logical explanation for this is because the sigma personality is full of contradictions. Given their goal-driven nature, they tend to focus more on spending time alone than in a social setting.
• While sigma males bear the characteristics of an alpha male, their silent and mysterious nature keeps them away from the spotlight. This is why the existence of a sigma male personality can be known to only a few people.
• When it comes to zodiac signs, you may have a hard time finding the perfect match for this male personality type. However, the two zodiac signs that come close to the characteristics of a sigma male are Scorpios and Capricorns.
• It may be rare, but sigma males can have a few friends like an omega male. However, if they did indeed have friends, it's because they chose to be friends with them and not out of necessity.
• Thanks to their prudent and logical nature, a sigma male may end up challenging an alpha male's dominance if he senses dishonest and fraudulent leadership. Regardless of his lone nature, he will be motivated to make a difference in the world, even if it means going against corruption at play.

- What is a Sigma Male: An Ultimate Guide to the Lone Wolf (msn.com)