Thursday, February 23, 2023
Monday, February 20, 2023
Movies: Shehzada
‘Shehzada’
(2023) is a brilliant action drama film featuring Kartik Aaryan and Kriti Sanon
in lead roles. It is Kartik Aaryan’s next movie after super-hit ‘Bhul Bhulaiyaa
2’. So, what to expect in Shehzada?
First of
all, comedy is too good. Kartik Aaryan has already established himself
as a great fit for lead roles in comedy films and most of his films become
popular because of this. Remember Bhul Bhulaiyaa 2? Shehzada tries to bring
some of that flavor in this movie too. Rajpal Yadav has a role in this too and he is too
funny. The pair of Rajpal Yadav and Kartik Aaryan is a super hit pair for sure!
Secondly,
the cast of this movie is too good as well. Manisha Koirala
returns to the screen and graces her role with so much dignity. She still has her old charisma and at the same time she fits so well in her role of a mother.
Kriti
Sanon is near perfect in her role. Among the Bollywood’s best-looking
actresses, Kriti possesses the best acting talent for sure. She had a glamourous role in Shehzada, and she does it with perfection. She has a positive personality and
whenever she and Kartik appear on the screen, audience are hooked.
The movie also features great actors like Paresh Rawal who got a very prominent role. Ronit Roy who got a powerful role and you will astonished as to how he brings so much energy, grace and machoism in his roles. Sachin Khedekar plays a touching role too, as a maternal grandfather. Ankur Rathee as a spoilt brat has done really good job in his character. There is a new face in the form of Sunny Hinduja who is playing the lead villain and he is too impressive.
All actors and actresses have given really good
performance which has made this movie “never a dull moment”.
Now, the songs. Pritam has given music, which is itself to explain the quality. In the title song, we can notice Sonu Nigam who sounds as good as he did in the best of his days.
“Mere
sawal ka” sung by Shashwat Singh and Shalmali Kholgade is my favourite:
Now, coming
the social messages. First, the movie explains the “No means no” concept so
very well. Feminists will love this movie. Then, the lead character or ‘hero’
of the movie is like the golden era movies when such characters did not have
any flaw. Bantu (Kartik’s character) is funny, truthful (never speaks lies),
positive (does not mind hate coming his way especially from his ‘fake’ father),
strong, savior of the weak, stands up for that is right, a good son, a good brother,
a good friend, a trustful employee, and as you would realize in the end, has a
heart made of gold.
Shehzada
is 10/10 on entertainment and if you want to really enjoy the 2.5 hours
you spend in a theater, this is your perfect experience. Go watch this movie
along with your family and hope you will love it too.
- Rahul
Wednesday, February 15, 2023
Children of Gold
While
passing through a portion of lane housing poor people on its sides, I often
come across their little children running around. They can magically appear
from anywhere and everywhere and would run across the lane as if it were their
own house. They have no concept of safety or discipline, and they are as
reckless as childhood is supposed to be. And the most important trait is that those
children are so beautiful!
While all
kids are beautiful, somehow those children of poor families are more
beautiful than the others. All of them are dark skinned, which only accentuates
their beautiful face or eyes. Their unkempt hair flow like branches of a tree,
or a stream coming out from the mountains. All of them are chubby, like most kids
of that age are. All of them are dressed in a few clothes which somehow seem
adequate in their own rights. And most importantly, all of them look happy.
While all
kids are generally happy, somehow those kids of poor families appear happier
than the rest. They are seen playing with one another, or often even playing all
alone. And sometimes in groups. Sometimes their mothers are feeding them with
some bowl or a glass; and most of the time their fathers are nowhere on
the scene; perhaps gone away to work.
The
presence of those children in this world is a kind of consolation for all
things it lacks. Like presence of flowers in a garden, which otherwise seems just
like abundant greenery and nothing more.
May God
bless those little kids, whoever they are. May the world be a bit kinder to
them when they grow up, because that is when all the problems start. May the
narrow lanes keep them safe, and their tiny houses keep them warm, until they
are ready to face the sun.
May the
world be a better place than it is, without the kids.
- Rahul Tiwary
Monday, February 6, 2023
Pictures: Some public places in Pune
Friday, January 27, 2023
Book Review: Some Very Dignified Disclosures, by Anumita Sharma
At the
beginning of the year, I had decided to get back to my old habit of reading
books. I have been a voracious reader for quite many years but in the recent times,
due to reasons best described as ‘mid life crisis’, I dropped this hobby. I
even planned to sell the still-wrapped, unread books from my home library, or
give it away. But thanks to a lack of opportunity, I did not act on such heartless
adventures. So, one day `I just opened my book-shelf and picked one unread
book. And the first one to start the year was an interesting book I had bought
some years ago and had forgotten about it, “Some Very Dignified Disclosures” by
author Anumita Sharma.
The first
thing that hits you once you pick up this book, is its title which sounds so
aristocratic. Who gives such titles to books in the era of generation X, Y and
Z? But going through the book, the title is totally justified. The author proves
her mantle more than anyone in her place could. At the start, I wondered how
many days I would take to finish this novel of 253 pages long. And I was
astonished that it took me only 4 days to finish it.
Once I
started reading the books, many things started hitting (surprising) me. I
realized that the story is set in the same part where my hometown is, and even
I share similar kind of family setup in which the protagonist of the book came
from. The protagonist of the book could very well be my neighbor at cthe hometown
I never talked to. I don’t recall any book written by another person from my
hometown or nearby, or from someone from my community or similar, and in the
form of such a wonderful book. But coming ‘close’ to the fictitious central
character, I can definitely judge the story, its characters, themes and
cultural nuances better. And I would give 10/10 to this book. Or even 15 out of
10 if it were possible.
Next
thing which hit me was the fact that we are used to read novels written by male
writers and protagonists are typically male too; and it is easier for readers
like me to identify with a man as the story goes on. But here, the protagonist
was not only a girl; but a girl who looked at everything from such a different
perspective and reacted in such a different manner, that I could not “go along”
with the character even for few moments. There are male characters in the book,
but none of them are righteous or of some virtues.
I have
never come across someone who wrote a novel in this kind of language (English).
Simple and mundane things are given color and purpose, thanks to the keen eyes
of the writer. The book deserves a Booker Prize and nothing less. Let me give
some examples and excerpts, picked randomly:
“Two days
later Uncle returned, too, like a ghost himself, he looked lost, his brown
trousers sagged, and white shirt was splattered with mud. He had grey-black
stubble, his moustache dropped, half moons under his sunken eyes were bigger
than the sun, he looked like an overripe mango, squelched and bruised. He wasn’t
bad to look at, his height was medium, nose almost Grecian, his eyes were brown
as I remembered, and he had a cleft chin.” (Page-91)
Those who
say that “a picture tells a thousand words”, have not read this book for sure. A
thousand pictures can also not sum up what this author tells in one paragraph
in this book.
The author
does poetic justice with female characters too:
“She gauged
me critically from her bumpy seat in the carriage, opened her mouth to say
something at least twice, but then lapsed into wailing. By the time we reached
the village her howls were louder, so much so, that many people were watching
us from rooftops, and stray dogs were trailing her cart.” (Page 120-21)
Now, if
there was no “stray dog” in above episode, it won’t have the same impact. The
scenes described in this book appear so accurate, elaborate and perfect and
this book is a masterpiece.
The only
thing I can complain about is perhaps the ‘adult’ content in some parts, which
could have been replaced with more subtle descriptions. But having read many
great authors, I think it is part of the parcel, especially since this is "coming of age" story.
Now, having
read the whole story which is captivating, fresh and of great quality, if I try
to analyze few aspects of the central character, Roli, the girl: I was surprised
at the lack of relationships or empathy for other characters in her. For
example, she loses her mother whom she idolizes and the purest and deepest love
between a daughter and a mother has been described so well in this book. But, the
daughter does not miss her father at all! She hardly remembers him, hardly feels
any sympathy while he rots in jails and his whole life is wasted due to a moment’s
mistake and crime which happened in the heat of the moment. I expected the girl
to show some change of heart when she grows older, but no; she is not ready to
change. She shows the same lack of empathy towards her brother too. She definitely
cares about him, that is why she notices when he wanders behind his ‘new mother’
like a pet, but was it not necessary for him to get some affection? When she
lost her mother to fate, and then father to the law, her baby brother lost his
mother and father too. While she had a greater understanding of things around
her, the boy was merely a baby when the disaster happened. Later, when he fell
into drugs, again she sees but does not try to stop him. And in the end, when
she has a good job in the city, I expected her to try to take her brother and
stepmother away to the city to live with her, but she merely visited the
village to “see” how things were with no intention to “help” change the
situation. That was apathetic. If she tried but they did not allow her to help
them, it was a different matter. But she did not even try. Not even to help her
brother. Plus, she talked about feminism and its influence, but looking at the
manner in which she hated her step-mother who was a woman too, and pitied a
poor woman Chandra as if she was less than a human in terms of dignity, it does
not look well. If she could not help or feel sympathy for male characters like
father/brother, it could be understood. But no sympathy for her stepmother and women
like Chandra shows that she was a victim of ‘bias’ too due to which society
looks down on certain members.
“Some very
dignified disclosures” is a splendid novel and I highly recommend it for a fresh, captivating read.
- Rahul
Monday, January 23, 2023
Psychology: Being Sigma
Sometime
back I came across an article which spoke about one of the personality types of
men. Once I started reading it, it felt so close that I was hooked. Everything
being mentioned there, resonated with me. There was not a single trait
described which did not match. I was shocked. Then, near the bottom of the
article, the writer wrote about two zodiac signs which come closest to the
personality type. And guess what? I had one of those two! I think this is why
psychology is a field of study and this is where specialized knowledge can help
in some situations.
Although, I don’t know how to make use of the knowledge or realization from this article. We are what we are. Merely knowing that we are of certain ‘type’ or if we can be ‘labeled’ in some manner, won’t matter much. Although this was very interesting indeed.
On second thought, does it mean that 'zodiac' signs really have some credibility?
Here are some portions from the article:
- Most popularly referred to as the "lone wolf", sigma males are typically considered to be the more silent and mysterious version of your typical alpha male.
- They are the kind of guys that prefer being in their own company rather than in a group. Moreover, they only do things on their own terms, and they refuse to conform to authority or the world's demands.
- Among the other five personalities, the sigma male is considered the personality type with higher chances of challenging the dominance of an alpha male and actually winning. However, if not for the most righteous motivations, they'd usually just prefer to mind their own business away from the limelight.
- The legendary retired hitman John Wick played by our favorite actor Keannu Reeves is the best definition of sigma male personality.
- Sigma males are mavericks. A sigma male would rarely conform to the demands of the world. They prefer to independently walk their own path. Following structures and traditional concepts don't interest them, and they'd always create a system that perfectly fits their personality.
- Their creativity and confidence allow them to be individuals who are driven to accomplish their goals despite any adversities. Guys with sigma male personalities are not afraid to take up space and build something for themselves instead of working for people.
- Sigma males are self-sufficient. If there's a list of things sigma males can live without, it's undoubtedly other people's company and validation. Sigma males are known for their emotional independence and self-sufficiency, hence the reputation of being a lone wolf. Simply put, sigma males don't require a social circle to be themselves.
- They're not one to brag about their achievements online. They do not yearn for other people's recognition of their hard work or the need to depend on other people for their emotional wellbeing. As long as sigma males have their basic necessities covered, they wouldn't really need much in life.
- Sigma males are practical. Sigma males know what they want in life, which is why it is easier to prioritize themselves first over other people. Do note that this isn't being selfish, but more so, just being practical. As an example, a sigma male will never dress to impress at the cost of his own comfort.
- Generally speaking, sigma males' practicality pushes them to base their decisions on their personal preferences, not on other people's opinions.
- Sigma males prefer blending in than being the center of attention. Dreading being in the spotlight is part of a sigma male's introverted nature. They'd rather just work in the background than have the general public know everything they do.
- Sigma males prefer to live their lives in silence and save up their energy for something more productive and essential, rather than spending their energy on meaningless conversations and activities.
- Sigma males are deep and critical thinkers. Sigma males always make sure to take their time processing all information before arriving at a calculated decision. This can be attributed to their mostly being in their own company.
- Sigma males recognize that they're bound to commit mistakes, but practicing introspection and contemplation before taking any action would lessen its chances. They are also prone to self-reflect in order to be more aware of their personal strengths and weaknesses.
- Sigma males are socially flexible. Despite being introverts, sigma males can still blend in just well in a crowd. Sigma males happen to have some of the traits of an alpha male, and they can be very much like one if they choose to be.
- This trait makes them good candidates for leadership and managerial positions. While they can be quiet and mysterious, they can also be competent leaders, silently working in the background minus the ego of an Alpha male.
- Sigma males are effortlessly charismatic. This may be a contradiction to their lone wolf reputation, but sigma males are naturally charismatic and appealing to the opposite sex. Something about their quiet and mysterious side makes it easy for people to get attracted to them.
- Sigma males are considered the rarest of all six male personalities. Perhaps, the most logical explanation for this is because the sigma personality is full of contradictions. Given their goal-driven nature, they tend to focus more on spending time alone than in a social setting.
- While sigma males bear the characteristics of an alpha male, their silent and mysterious nature keeps them away from the spotlight. This is why the existence of a sigma male personality can be known to only a few people.
- When it comes to zodiac signs, you may have a hard time finding the perfect match for this male personality type. However, the two zodiac signs that come close to the characteristics of a sigma male are Scorpios and Capricorns.
- It may be rare, but sigma males can have a few friends like an omega male. However, if they did indeed have friends, it's because they chose to be friends with them and not out of necessity.
- Thanks to their prudent and logical nature, a sigma male may end up challenging an alpha male's dominance if he senses dishonest and fraudulent leadership. Regardless of his lone nature, he will be motivated to make a difference in the world, even if it means going against corruption at play.
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Saturday, January 21, 2023
Friday, January 20, 2023
आलेख: बच्चों की भावनाओं और भोजन के बीच सम्बन्ध
बच्चों के स्वास्थ्य के बारे में हालाँकि काफी जागरुकता बढ़ी है, फिर भी न तो विज्ञान इस विषय में अंतिम मत देता प्रतीत होता है, न ही लोगों में इस मामले में आम राय बनी है। हर कोई अच्छे स्वास्थ्य के विषय में अपना अलग मंतव्य रखता दीखता है। ऐसे में एक ऐसे विषय पर समाचारपत्र में लेख प्रकाशित हुआ जिसने मेरा ध्यान आकर्षित किया। पेश है यह ज्ञानवर्धक लेख:
Wednesday, January 18, 2023
Memories: Letter from Maneka Gandhi
Way back
in my younger days, when I was in high school, I was an idealist and influenced
and inspired by social causes. I used to write letters to newspapers and also corresponded
with activists and social organizations. At that time, a popular TV show used
to appear on DD-National, featuring animal rights activist Maneka Gandhi. I had
written to her once and I had also got her reply. Those days, we used to write
physical hand written letters, and hence both she and I wrote with hand. I had
forgotten about this, until recently when I found the letter and then recalled
that time.
Here is
the letter, for memory sake:
- Rahul
Tuesday, January 10, 2023
How to sell fractional Units of Nippon India ETF Liquid BeES
If you
have fractional Units of Nippon India ETF Liquid BeES mutual fund in your Dmat
account and you are struggling to sell it, this blog post will help it.
You will
not be able to sell this in open market as the mutual fund scheme no longer
trades. Therefore, the company (Nippon Mutual Fund) has offered to “buy back”
your units. I asked about the process to Nippon customer care and below is the
process they shared. I am posting the process as it is for the benefit of other
customers who are looking at ways to sell fractional units from their Dmat
account and not able to do so. Please note that below information may not be
applicable always and the process may change over time, hence you should verify
and be sure before doing anything.
Greetings from Nippon India Mutual Fund!
Thanks for reaching out to us! We will surely help you with your query.
Facility for buying back fractional Units of Nippon India ETF Liquid BeES:
Nippon India ETF Liquid BeES (ISIN: INF732E01037) declares daily Dividend and the same is compulsorily reinvested in the Scheme on daily basis. The Units arising out of Dividend reinvestment results into fractional Units. The Dividend Re-Investment Units are uploaded up to three decimals periodically in the beneficiary account of the Unit holder held with the Depository. As the minimum trading lot on National Stock Exchange of India Limited (NSE) is 1 (One) Unit, the fractional Units of the Scheme cannot be traded on the NSE. In order to provide an exit option to Unit holders holding fractional Units of the Scheme in their demat account, the Scheme will offer a buy back facility to Unit holders holding fractional Units in Liquid BeES. The redemption will be processed on the first Business Day of the following week. To enable this facility the Mutual Fund has opened an account with the Central Depository Systems Limited (CDSL) whose details are mentioned below:
Instructions to Unit holders:
1. Unit
holders who hold fractional Units of the Scheme in their demat accounts should
transfer the fractional Units by submitting an off-market delivery instruction
slip (DIS) duly filled and signed to their respective Depository Participant
directly. The Unit holders should use appropriate off market transfer slip
(intra depository off market transfer slip if the Unit holder holds
a demat account with a CDSL Depository Participant (DP) and an inter depository off market transfer slip if the Unit holder holds a demat account with a National Securities Depository Limited (NSDL) DP) for this purpose.
2. The Unit holder should transfer the fractional Units of the Scheme to the CDSL account of the Scheme, details of which are mentioned above.
3. The DP will execute the transfer of fractional Units from the Unit holder’s demat account to the demat account of the Scheme (Target Account).
4. The AMC / Registrar will track the Units received in the Target Account and once sighted, the fractional Units will be considered for Redemption as on the date of receipt of such fractional Units in the Target Account.
5. The AMC/ Registrar will obtain the bank account details of the Unit holder from the Depository database and the Redemption proceeds for the fractional Units will be paid / credited to such bank account of the Unit holder. Please note the following:
- Under
this facility, the Unit holder can offer only fractional Units of the Scheme
for buy back. Incase the Unit holder transfers whole Unit(s) then the same will
be transferred back to the same demat account of the Unit holder from where the
fractional Units were received. E.g. If the Unit Holder transfers 1.568 Units
to the demat account of the Scheme, then 0.568 Units will be considered for
Redemption and remaining one (1) Unit will be transferred back to
the demat account of the Unit holder from where the fractional Unit was received.
The Redemption proceeds for the fractional Units will be paid to bank account of the Unit holder registered with the DP.
Investors can also Redeem Fractional Units of the Scheme through the Mutual Fund Service System (MFSS) and the BSE Star MF platform/facilities provided by the NSE and BSE respectively
Below
mentioned the link (Liquid BeES) :
https://investeasy.nipponindiaim.com/rmfGsamnew/documents/FacilityforbuyingbackfractionalUnitsofLiquidBeES_new.pdf
Wednesday, January 4, 2023
Natural Beauty Around Bangalore
Everyone knows that Bangalore (Bengaluru) is a beautiful place. But even the places around Bangalore are beautiful and full of greenery and nature.
Here are
some pics:
- Rahul
Sunday, January 1, 2023
Good Bye 2022
One more
year has gone by. Being on the ‘wrong side’ of age, passing of a year does not
feel like making us ‘better’ anymore. I remember my ‘yearly review’ posts which
I used to make till a few years back, and I can recall the good feeling about
those. I mainly listed major achievements and life events, and definitely did
not share any negative or too personal happenings. It made those posts look better
and I was not honest in that regard. But I know we all can decide about the
boundaries up to which people can know.
Now, I
started year 2022 by being in my hometown and I spent about half of the year at
hometown and half in the city. And at the beginning of the year, I entered into
an agreement with a ‘builder’ who happened to go back on his promise and cheated
me. I decided to file a court case and got good exposure to the whole life behind
those walls. And I won’t recommend that to anyone, if it can be avoided,
because all those cries of Sunny Deol in some movie, “Tarikh pe Tarikh” is
absolutely true. So, the court case against the builder is running its hopeless
life, and I gained some experience which I would have rather avoided. Also at the beginning of the year, I made a career move for which I was mentally prepared for over last 2.5 years. It is an epic story in itself, culminating in a climax, nothing short of a thriller. I came out victorious, against many odds, and it felt really good. Apart
from that, I procured a motorcycle I was planning to get for some time, and it
felt really good. I enjoy motorbikes and the freedom it brings. Even in my
childhood, I was very fond of my bicycle. I also got a piece of furniture at
home which I was thinking about for quite some time. I got it in perfect shape,
design and budget; with no regrets, and exactly what qualifies as a ‘good buy’.
Apart from these, there were some property related transactions which were also
very important and got done with this year. I am also close to two more tasks
which I plant to finish soon into 2023. So, several items went off from ‘To-Do’
list and hence the year was productive one in that regard. On personal front, the
“hill to climb” still continues; and in that aspect, the year seems one more
wasted year and nothing more.
I do not
have much high hopes for 2023. Still, I have a few things on my mind and
hopefully, those should get done soon.
After a
certain age, we are able to look back at the years gone by and think what we
could do differently. I have some key learnings on that, which I can’t correct
now, since there is no way to rewind time. But, I wish I did not listen to others
and did only what I thought was right, because time has proven that if I had
trusted my own instincts, things would have been alright. I remember my time since
childhood, and I can immediately feel how closer to God I was; how strong were
my ideals and morals which did not allow me to make mistakes and do any harm to
any other. But, as some people say, our life also depends on the kind of people
we are living with, and their mistakes and decisions can impact our own life
too. And it has been a huge disappointment in that regard. I still have faith in
God, if he ever choses to reward me for my good conduct. To punish our obedient
child must also be difficult for God, I guess.
While
thinking about the old and the new year, I have also realized how I left my
hobby of reading books a few years back. I think I also have been a victim of ‘peaking
out early’. I plan to get back and start reading leisurely, like the old days -
the glorious, good days, full of hopes and positivity.
Welcome,
2023.
- Rahul
Saturday, December 24, 2022
The Balloon
I was having tea at a roadside shop when something on the road caught my attention. When I tried to check what it was, I could see a big helium-filled balloon being carried by someone. The balloon was special, since it had a “balloon inside a balloon”, something I had never seen before! Then I tried to find out who was carrying it. Next few moments were bursts of one realization after another.
It
was a lady who was carrying the balloon. She was an overweight lady; really-really
overweight. Then I realized that she was overweight like the new mothers who are
taking care of newborn infants. She was carrying the balloon and nothing else and the big colorful balloon was floating
in the sky. There was something different in the way she walked. What was it? I noticed that she was not looking up at all and had kept her eyes down while she walked, as if
she was embarrassed or feeling shy. Her neck was also trying to sink. It became clear that since she was carrying a big special balloon all
alone, she was feeling shy because she was a grownup lady and not a kid. It may
be normal to see children carrying balloons, but not adults. So, to
sum it up: she was a new mother taking care of a small kid, she would have gone
somewhere and on the way back home she came across a helium balloon seller and
hence she bought a big one for her child. She was walking feeling shy, for what will
people think about her carrying a big balloon! She was also clearly excited imagining
how her kid would react seeing the balloon and was trying to reach her home as soon as
possible. Now, all this was too much for me, and I started getting tears in my eyes,
and hence I looked away and moved on. But that special scene of an excited mother
bringing balloon for her kid, got captured in my memory like a painting.
May God
bless her and her kid.
- Rahul















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